Phoenix is good for a basic Lightning wallet but it doesn’t give you a permanent address for receiving zaps.

Alby is in the process of going self-custodial so they’re not adding many new users at the moment.

Depending on where you live some options for you are:

Custodial:
Strike
Primal
LN.tips bot on Telegram
Stacker.news

Self custodial:
Zeus with a Zeus Pay address
Mutiny (the latest TestFlight)